Drpta wrote:...if I have a good friend ... and ... I am giving him a gift. Is it bribe? I suppose not.
In terms of bribing - just this evening while travelling home, after visiting my wife Marina in the hospital where she is already on the way to recovery after the surgical operation from the weekend, I met in the bus an old friend of my father who originates also from Romania. We exchanged some friendly words and he asked me where I am going? I told him that I would be on my way home after visiting my wife in the hospital, and would go first to a shop to buy a small and adequate present to give it to the operating surgeon of my wife when he, being the Chief Physician there, would release her in the coming days from hospital.
He objected to this idea, telling me that this would be a kind of bribery, the way it was customary in Romania (in the Old Days, now things start to change there also although slowly) where the understanding was that you could not expect much from a doctor, or a physician in hospital, when you would not first offer him some substancial "present" - often a letter with money or some goods - so that he would feel obliged to help you. I told him that it is rather the other way around and that this Russian surgeon did his job unselfishly (of course in German hospitals doctors have a very good salary) and was not expecting or asking me or my wife of anything in return, when we approached him on Saturday morning in the hospital where I was driving my wife, after she suffered the whole night of heavy abdominal pain. He just told us after looking through the blood tests of Marina that she would need surgery as soon as possible. Four hours later he performed the operation after my wife gave her okay to it.
Now she is already over the worst and on the way to recovery (see photos). So making a long story short, I bought for 10 euros a beautiful gift and will give it tommorow in the hospital to my wife, who will give it as a thank to the doctor when she will be released home. Is it bribery? For me not. Since it is, or rather was, not so as you say after given careful consideration, "... when someone came to empowered person and ask him for any special privilege in exchange for gift". It is for me and my wife, who came up with this idea, rather a little gesture by which we would like to express our gratitude to this expert surgeon.
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.Marina yesterday and today, right, in the Dr. Erler Clinic.
Drpta wrote:The question is, can devas commit any illegal acts? Is there, in devas realm a law structure like we have here?
A good question, Drpta. In your opinion, Hari, and according to your understanding, does something like this exist?