I see you are one with whom it is possible to have constructive discussions and exchange views without prejudice. I like that. Your analyses remembers me of the following instructive story I read ones.aradhya wrote:Not that I would burden Krishna or Hari (or anyone else) with the consequences of my own decisions, but can I say only my own sense of responsibility counts!? Who am I to (even think to) ignore the superiors' sense of responsibility about me!? Krishna confirms that: "atmanam kevalam tu yah, pashyaty akrita bhydhitvan, na sa pashyati durmati," Not only my own will and effort but also time-place (circumstances) and above all The Supreme, all of them (including me, not to forget that either, of course) share the responsibility about what takes place with (and around) me (or anyone else). Owing to the circumstances (destiny or whatever, but certainly not my conscious effort) in those times can I be on Harimedia these times (not so often as I would like, I admit), if I had missed those times, I would never have a chance for it now.
Once there was a guru who wanted to train his two disciples by giving them a practical task, "Take 100 Rupees each of you" he said "and use it to fill up your rooms with whatever you are able to purchase. In five days’ time I will return to inspect your work." When he returned and visited the room of the first disciple, he saw it had been filled up with rags. That disciple had thought that by hook or by crook he had to, somehow or other, fill up the room, and since rags were the cheapest items to purchase, he had chosen them. The guru was duly shocked.
When the guru came to inspect the second room, he saw that it had been filled up - not only once, but twice and his disciple returned 80 Rupees back to him and said, "Guru Maharaja, I only needed 20 Rps to fill the room twice." He had lit a ghee lamp in the middle of the room, along with an incense stick. Light and fragrance were spreading everywhere, from top to bottom, from left to right, from the front to the rear. The delighted guru said, "You have truly understood. Life is very much like an empty room. It should be filled with the light of knowledge and the fragrance of a serving attitude, and not with the discarded filthy things one might find here and there."
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As one can see in this story it is not so beneficial to hand over (surrender) allso all ones common sense on the doorstep of an ashram or temple rather use and exploit these potential which everyone has properly, whenever and wherever it is required.